Chapter 5

Our Cruel Heritage: The case for Pessimism

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As a counterpoint to the previous chapter, a compelling argument can be made that humans are, by nature, selfish and cruel. We’ve seen these characteristics in news accounts, in difficult people we’ve met, and at times even in ourselves - at the very least, in our impulsive thoughts.

Evolutionary science suggests that selfishness is a survival mechanism. Natural selection favors those who prioritize their own survival and the continuation of their genetic line. Various religions recognize this trait too. The Christian concept of original sin states that the human race is basically depraved and sinful. We speak sinful words, we do sinful deeds, and we have impure thoughts.

Some argue that without the constraints of societies and their norms and laws (the Veneer Theory), we would revert to a state graphically portrayed in William Golding’s novel Lord of the Flies. The infamous Stanford Prison Experiment (1971) revealed how quickly ordinary individuals become abusive when placed in positions of power. In real life, we see these tendencies played out in genocides (e.g., The Holocaust, The Rwandan Genocide), civil war (e.g., Syrian Civil War), and even Online cruelty (i.e., cyberbullying). Once a person or group is deindividualized and dehumanized, they are likely targets of abuse by others. Psychopathy, narcissism, Machiavellianism, and sadism are far more common than we may be comfortable admitting. Labeling others as ‘Evil’ is lazy because all brains are a bit sadistic.

Pretty scary and disheartening, right? But what is the reality? Which portrayal of human nature is more accurate?

…. the Verdict

The fact of the matter is that Humans have the capacity to be both kind and cruel – depending on various factors. If we were raised by abusive parents, we might (but not necessarily) grow up to raise our own children in like manner. If we live in a harsh region, we might (but might not) reflect that behavior. If our brains are miswired to lack empathy, we might grow up to be sociopathically cruel, though not always.

I side with social scientists who argue that violence, greed, and cruelty often arise from fear, resource scarcity, systemic inequality, or cultural conditioning - not from an inherent malevolence. When people feel safe, valued, and connected, they tend to act with kindness and empathy. The darker aspects of human behavior are more accurately seen as distortions or suppressions of our basic nature, rather than expressions of it.

Evolutionary psychologists teach us that a significant factor in determining our behavior toward others is whether we consider them to be one of “Us” or one of “Them”. Early humans learned the benefits of caring for those in their own tribe (typically a group of fewer than 200) and of being wary and ready to fight those from other tribes. Toward the former, we tend to be kind. Toward the latter, we have the capacity to be cruel. The challenge these days, of course, is that the world is, figuratively speaking, a much smaller place. Also, our tools of destruction and mass murder are so much more effective. In the 1940s, we engineered genocide. In that same decade, we developed nuclear weapons.    

We will explore some of these dynamics in greater depth in PART IV (Social Relations) and particularly in the chapter titled “The Hierarchy of Human Relationships”.


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