About the Author (and his Biases)
Raised in a stereotypical,
middle-class, suburban, white, Christian, nuclear family, my upbringing in the
1950s and 1960’s may have most resembled the Cleavers of the “Leave it to
Beaver” sitcom. My father voted Republican. My mother was a self-declared
Democrat Pacifist. As a teenager, I went door to door in San Jose, California, advocating equal housing for people of color, and marched with Cesar Chavez out
of Delano and into Sacramento in support of farm worker rights.
After High School, I went to university
for one year before dropping out in 1968, letting my hair grow and hitchhiking
around the country and Europe. In the ensuing years, I was, at times, homeless
and a day laborer. I lived in a multi-racial and turbulent Berkeley. I studied
and practiced numerous world religions and joined cults. As a Conscience
Objector, I served my country, earning $100 a month for two years as a counselor to troubled teenagers. I was educated in
the philosophy of women’s liberation by powerful females and took up modern
dance as a straight, cisgender male. Lying on a warm sandy beach in Santa Cruz,
I had an epiphany that I’d better rise up and get going if I was to accomplish
anything in my life.
Over the ensuing decades, I earned an undergraduate degree in Humanistic Psychology, a master’s degree in social work, practiced as a Clinical Social Worker, left the field in 1980 to pursue a career in business and computing, and got my second graduate degree (MBA) in
1989.
My work life spanned the spectrum from
digging ditches, cleaning, painting, and building houses to controlling the
fate of corporations as a “god-like” Database Architect and Administrator.
With my wife of nearly 50 years, we’ve
raised two children and spoiled three grandkids. Since retiring in 2012, we’ve
traveled to over 50 countries across the globe and enjoyed making new friends
from many different backgrounds and cultures. I’ve always been fond of people
and interested in hearing their stories. I currently live in a community of 257
households and serve as the HOA President. Most other residents are from India
and China and work in technology.
Does
this past and do these experiences make me immune to biases and prejudices?
Certainly not. As much as I’ve tried to make this book universal in its
outlook, I’m certain to have blind spots. By nature, and upbringing, I am a pragmatic
humanist. As you will discover, I have faith in Humanity even as I’ve seen its
weaknesses and stupidities. What other choice do we have? The alternative is to
follow Job’s wife’s advice to the poor fellow - ”Curse God and die”. No thanks.